You treat people like they're pushovers, and you talk to them when you feel like it. And yet you complain about how people treat you, and you have the nerve to kick up a fuss when people question you nicely about your behaviour. Just because you have problems that you can't do anything about, it doesn't mean you have the license to shout and curse at people. When you have someone to occupy your thoughts, you part the bloody sea to get them involved in everything you do, without bothering about how the other people involved feel about it. Do something about yourself, will you?